eRomancedollar(ISBN 0-9689542-8-6)

return     date-ME  
 dating her     dating him

love pulsating heart

coffee cup of coffee

flowers

chocolates






 























 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

cuffing refers to girls+guys looking
             for the opposite sex to keep
             them warm in the fall :o)

Édith Piaf
dans l'amour il faut des larmes
in love there has to be tears
il faut tant de larmes pour avoir le droit d'aimer
you need SO MANY TEARS in order to have THE RIGHT TO LOVE

Sexual consenthas 2b
- verbal
- ongoing
- enthusiastic

tip: 1st date, 30 minutes @coffeecup of coffeeshop

"Everything that lives, 
  lives not alone nor for itself.
"

   - William Blake, English Romance poet
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love tests (FREE)
http://www.lovetest.com

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love quotes+quizzes+date tips
http://www.links2love.com

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love poems+quotes
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com

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YouTube videos
how 2make a girl want U
body parts where girls love 2b touched
7hidden body language clues that she likes U


Group Dates
Young people should enjoy their
freedom by going on 
group dates
with people they know: no young
person is fully emotionally mature
2engage in sex.
 
Premature
sexual activity can 
result in high levels of anxiety, 
abuse+loss of self love.


Group dates r a safe way 2
develop a healthy self image+
confidence in one's ability 2
attract those of the other sex.


Did u no?

*Non-consentual* touch or act

of a sexual nature
is sexual
assault
, a punishable
criminal offence
.


tip: u want 2 touch, ask!


Did u no?

2many impersonal sexual 
relationships can lead 2 
sexually transmitted dis-
eases, sterility, unwanted
pregnancy, an addiction 2
sex+a disbelief in marital
fidelity.


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"What is essential is invisible to the eye."
    - Saint Exupery, author of The Little Prince


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Did u no?
35% of the people using personal 
ads r married.

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Did u no?
U might b dating a person online 
who is pretending 2b confident.


BIG+beautiful dates
http://www.bbpeoplemeet.com


Did u no?
January+February r
the busiest months
4
online dating services.

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Did u no?
Match.com
$25 monthly 
fee
generates $30 million.arrow
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Match.com
http://www.match.com.

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Did u no?
MatchLive has kicked off 
social events
in New York+
San Francisco. It's now part 
of
 
Match.com.


Matchmaker.com
http://www.Matchmaker.com


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"
I have had a perfectly wonderful evening,
  but this wasn't it."

   - Groucho Marx


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Did u no?
According 2ComScore Networks
at-work Internet
users
spend 
about 1 hour a month
at online
dating sites 


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best online dating tips

https://datingsidekick.com/best-online-dating-tips

popular dating sites
http://www.gay.com
http://www.pof.com
http://love.excite.com
http://www.zoosk.com
http://www.okcupid.com

where 2go?
Toronto restaurants
http://www.yelp.com

http://www.urbanspoon.com

Did u no?
A date is about 2people
who come together
 on 
their
bestbehavior wan-
ting 2have fun+in the 
process get 2 no a bit 
about each other.


tip: a date is not about answering
        a list of questions

tip: a 1st date success is when
        
both  want 2 go on a 2nd date


Did u no?
Let the girl you date know 
that you're 
grateful by saying,
I think we're going 2have
a fun time hanging out 
together.
 Thanks 4 coming.



tip: thinking of dating him/her, say,
       
let's do something together 
        sometime


tip: surprise your date with a gift like
        flowers, chocolates, concert
        (game or theatre) tickets.

tip: on a date a girl expects the guy 2
        show her respect, attention,
        affection 
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tip: offer 2give her a hand, shoulder, 
           head, or foot massage;
read her 
           a poem; play a musical 
instrument
           4 her; tell her a few 
funny jokes;
           play a
game, a sport

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dating directory
http://www.romance-search.com

speed dating (USA+Toronto)
http://www.pre-dating.com


Did u no?
Asking him/her, May I have
your phone #?
is better 
than saying I'd like 2have
your phone #. because 
question
is smoother
.

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6guy-tips
1. see a girl you like, smile+say,
     Hi! I'm Ken. And you are... ?


2. when talking 2a girl, look her in 
     the eyes
(not her chest)


3. on a date, don't  b checking out
     other women: that's so rude

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4. if the girl u r with, asks if u noticed
     some other girl, say, No, Im sorry
     you thought I was looking at some-
     one else.


5. ask her what things she thinks about

6. complement the girl you're with
     by saying something like I like
     
your dress. It really looks great 
     on you.
 


Did u no?
A poll conducted by Playgirl 
magazine
indicates that women
like average men
who r a
little hairy+chubby.

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Did u no?
The majority of women

prefer a man in a pair of 
jeans, boxers underneath+
sporting a T-shirt with a 
little cologne, NO stray 
nose hair+trimmed eye 
browse, NO back hair,
NO sandals, NO brief 
bathing suits at the
beach according 2a 
Cargo mag survey.

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NoCheatersDate
http://www.nocheatersdate.com

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Did u no?
2 keep the date moving talkwise

u can ask
about his/her favorite 
book or movie,
what s/he does
4fun, what places s/he wants 2 
go 2
,
what places s/he has been
2, what kind of events s/he likes,
what concerts s/he has been 2,
what funny things that have
happened 2him/her, what s/he
finds funny, his/her
 hobbies.

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Did u no?
A 3-course dinner with a bottle of 
wine+a white
linen tablecloth with 
romantic lighting
wins a girl's heart 
every time according 2a study
by a 
team of London Imperial College
mathematicians
who developed 
a mathematical courtship
model. 


eHarmony
http://eharmony.com

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Did u no?
When a man+woman hug each other
their heart benefits from the increased
levels of oxytocin, a bonding hormone
according
2 a study from the University 
of North
Carolina.

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tip: when your boy friend or girl 
           friend 
decides 2get after u
           some-thing
, say, relax , chill: 
           we'll discuss it 
once u r calm.

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Did u no?
2 successfully communicate with 
your girl friend or boyfriend,
talk 
about what is really up-
setting u
in order 2get the

problem out in  the open so it
can b dealt with (WITHOUT 
name calling+
bringing 
up of unrelated issues.)


tip: the secret 2a successful
        
relationship is to TALK!
        TALK! TALK!


"Do as much talking and listening 
  as you can 
before
you entwine 
  your emotional and financial
  futures. You can't choose your 
  kids, parents, or 
relatives, but 
  you can choose your partner,
   preferably after a courtship (to 
  use an old-
fashioned word) that
  allows you to enlarge 
and deepen 
  the conversation.
A relationship
   built on silence, on shedding, or
  suppression
of differences doesn't 
  have a strong
foundation."

    - Harriet Lerner, psychologist/author


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tip: flirting is an eye contact 
             
game leaving the person won-
             
dering if u r interested or just
           
being polite

tip: if the person u r trying 2 charm
              turns you down, doN'T hit on
              her/his buddy seated next 2
              him/her, move on

tip: stay cool on a 1st date
              (don't talk 2 much.)

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"Don't tell me.
 
Suggest.
 
But don't tell."

  - Frank Sinatra

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Did u no?
There r
questions u do
n't ask ...
1. what r u thinking?

2. why did u breakup?
3. do you think s/he's hot?

4. where r we going with this relationship?


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tip: girls doN'T like it when a guy
              puts his tongue in2 her ear -
              nibbling is OK?

tip: the #1 turn-on 4a man is a
              woman who wants him

tip: the anticipation factor makes
              a date fun


Guide 2Internet Dating
http://www.guide2internetdating.com

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A Great Date
http://www.agreaterdate.com


SuccessfulMatch
http://www.successfulmatch.com


people2people
http://www.people2people.com

 

Did u no?
Toxic togetherness occurs when
a couple becomes overly clingy.
It kills the romance. Leaving+coming
back together keeps the relationship 
fresh allowing it 2breathe. (Everyone
needs his/her own space.)


"
What sex is to men,
 
relationships are to women."

   
- Kristine Kern, Tango Managing Editor


arelationshipmag

http://www.conversely.com


tip: let her know that it's all about 
              her, put your arms around her+
              squeeze her lovingly saying
           Hey, Baby, you
know , you 
           turn me on.

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Did u no?
A Cornell University research
paper says we r attracted 2those
who are like us in terms of looks,

wealth, social
status+outlook. It 
suggests that in 
a marriage of
equals
there's less likelihood 
of 
a higher status partner try-
ing
2trade up 2a better partner.


tip: marriages between similar
              matches r more common+
              have a far greater chance of
              success than marriages
              between opposites

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Did u no?
A good date is passionate about 
things,
a good date is interested 
in what
his/her date thinks, in what 
makes him/her
tick+
a good date
generates sexual
excitement.

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tip: a person with a pet is 
           considered
nurturing+
           as a result, a potential 
           good date

tip: a person who has learned
           
from previous relationships+
              is not bitter is considered 
              good dating material

tip: a person who has had
             
relationships with the 
              opposite sex 4quite a 
           while
is felt 2b trust-
              worthy

tip: in a 2005 poll of 1000 adults
              2/3 chose 2have more $$$
              over having more sex

tip: it's notunusual 4women
              2prefer chocolate 
           over sex

tip: give her chocolates saying,
              These chocolates are for you 
           so you live long.

 
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Did u no?
The British Medical Journal 
reported that
eating 
chocolates 
regularly in moderate
amounts 
can extend a person's life
by a
year. Harvard School
of Public 
Health researchers found that

people who eat 1-3 candy bars 
a month
have a 36% lower risk 
of death than
those who don't
eat 
chocolate. 


tip: if she likes u, she'll enjoy 
              hanging out with your family

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Did u no?

The single, young, college-educated+
affluent
r moving in droves to Naples
(Florida),
Las Vegas (Nevada), Charlotte
(North Carolina)+
Portland (Oregon) ac-
cording 2 a U.S. Census Bureau
study.


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"
With women,
 
the heart argues,
 
not the mind."

    - Matthew Arnold


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Did u no?
Women need 27 minutes
of foreplay
which can involve 
any combination of kissing,
sucking, licking, squeezing+
rubbing.

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Did u no?
When it comes 2foreplay, 
the guy needs 2ask what 
the girl likes. He can sug-
gest things ahead of time. 

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tip: foreplay should b
           negotiated


tip: no one should feel 
        forced nor uncom-
        fortable doing any-
        thing sexual

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humour
Q: Do you know why women
      fake orgasm?

A: Because men fake foreplay.


tip:a female orgasm is 
          a powerful pain
killer be-
          cause of the endorphins
          it releases

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Did u no?
The fear of having sex is
called genophobia.

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Did u no?
43% of women+31% of men 
suffer
from some type of
sexual
dysfunction
.
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Did u no?
Flirting starts with a playful 
smile
+eye contact.

It is enhanced by saying her/his 
name, by giving a complement+
by making him/her
laugh. 

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tip: start a conversation by 
           talking about
yourself  

tip:  touch lightly her/his arm
            or hand or shoulder a bit


tip: try the Eskimo kiss by 
           rubbing the side
of your 
           against his/hers
in small
           circles

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Did u no?
The nose is lined with tissue 
very similar
2 erectile tissue
in sexual organs.

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"Kiss me. I need
 
to know something."

  - Kirsten Dunst, Spiderman 2 movie

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Did u no?
Kissing was already considered 
a romantic gesture
in the Kama Sutra 
of 1500 B.C.+today, it's
used 2enhance 
a romantic relationship.


tip: in Asia a boy doesn't 
           kiss a girl
(Only hus-
           band+wife kiss.)

tip: what is required 2
           kiss r moist, willing 
           lips+clean breath

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Did u no?
Great kissing aids r lip gloss, 
a cold Popsicle+a lollypop
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Did u no?
2kiss...
1st kiss, nibble lightly other body 
           parts b4 going 2 the lips like 
           the back of the neck, throat,
           cheeks, forehead

2nd
kiss, nibble, suck the lips 
            lightly 4a
minute
b4 playfully
            twirling the tongue

3rd
use your fingertips 2caress
           his/her body

4th
end your 
kissing session
           with several seconds of 

           tender kissing

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Did u no?
Eating 6 oz. of yogurt a day
will fight off bad breath according 
2a Japanese study from Tsurumi 
University in Yokohama. It re-
duces hydrogen sulfide (the 
cause of bad breath) in the 
mouth by 80%.


tip: yogurt prevents gas-
              trointestinal problems
           as well as dental 
decay
           as well as
reduce plaque
           +gingi
vitis
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"
I have found men
 
who didn't know how to kiss.
 
I've always found time to teach them."

 
- Mae West
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dating advice4teens
http://teenadvice.about.com

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tip: 2French kiss, press your
              parted lips against hers/his, 
              circle the tip of her/his tongue 
              with yours, let her/his tongue 
              in2 your mouth


all aboutkissing
http://www.virtualkiss.com


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tip: love is ...
        
1. passion
        2.
 intimacy
        3. commitment

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Did u no?
The Greeks were the ones
2invent the term honeymoon.


tip: 2 appear sexy b cond
        fident
show atttitude,
        
feel confortable with
        
your body+b funny

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Did u no?
In a survey of 20-29 years old,
94% said they agreed with this 
statement:
When u marry, u 
want your spouse 2b
your soul 
mate, 1st+foremost.


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"
To think is easy.
 
To act is hard.
  
But the hardest thing in the
world
 
is to act in accordance with your thinking."

    - Johann von Goethe, German Poet+Philosopher


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"Too long a sacrifice
 
can make a stone of the heart."

    - William Butler Yeats


tip:  impress him/her
            with a 
Haiku, an ancient 
            Japanese poetic form

            http://tinywords.com

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tip: yelling, nagging, name 
           callin,
actively ignoring 
           r all forms of 
emotional 
        abuse


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Lavalife
http://www.lavalife.com


tip: a guy who corrects others, 
           controls
 conversations+tries 
           2 surpass
others is an alpha
           (dominant) male


BlackPeopleMeet
http://www.blackpeoplemeet.com


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humour
In the 2001 movie, Chicago, the
husband of rich Chicago socialite
caught in bed with two women
says to his wife:

Come on, Doll!

Are you going to believe what you see
or what I tell yah?
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Did u no?
Telltale signs of cheating: 
- s/he picks fights
- starts criticizing u
- goes 2work earlier
- buys u unexpected gifts
- does u
unexpected favors
- bcomes uncommunicative
- starts 2look
+act differently
- comes back from work later
- his/her sexual behavior
changes


(The 1 b-ing cheated on
 needs 2
*rekindle* the 
 love
by acting super 
 nice, 
b as loving as
 possible+looking
 really sexy.)


  

JDate
http://www.jdate.com


ChristianMingle
http://www.christianmingle.com


dating Muslims
http://www.muslimdating.net
http://www.muslimmatch.com


dating Catholics
http://www.catholicmatch.com
http://www.catholicmingle.com
http://www.catholicsingles.com
http://www.catholicpeoplemeet.com

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"The art of love...
  
is largely the art of persistence."
  - Albert Ellis

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"There is hardly any activity, any enterprise,
  which is started with such tremendous 
  hopes
and expectations, and yet, which 
  fails 
so regularly as love."

   - Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving


Love
Love does make the World
go round.


"It starts with a love attraction that
leads to a commitment, a decision
2love in sickness+health - forever!

But first, he has to ask her.

Secondly, she has to say YES!

It's her yes that gives love a chance
2grow.

The magic of love is that people do
commit+their commitment does NOT
waver because they r committed 2love
freely bound by that decision 2love
that person more than any other 4
life


And so begins the story of love ...

The 2 become 1.

She becomes a mom, he a dad.

Together, as a famil, they celebrate 
their love.
 

That's the story of love that is 
passed on from generation 2generation."

- Kenneth Selin (say'leen)

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let him b yourKing
let her b yourQueen of another hearts
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