https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M8M5ANVxY4s 141 Cheating spouses have anger + depression problems on the one hand; on the other hand they're AFRAID TO BE IN LOVE. There is NOTHING SERIOUS about AN ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIP: it's ALL FANTASY, PRETENDING. NONE OF IT IS REAL, NOR IS IT EXPECTED TO BE. (Ha! HA!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA